Dunbar's number is a suggested cognitive limit to the number of people with whom one can maintain stable social relationships. These are relationships in which an individual knows who each person is and how each person relates to every other person.
This number was first proposed by British anthropologist Robin Dunbar,
who found a correlation between primate brain size and average social
By using the average human brain size and extrapolating from
the results of primates, he proposed that humans can only comfortably
maintain 150 stable relationships.
Proponents assert that numbers larger than this generally require more
restrictive rules, laws, and enforced norms to maintain a stable,
cohesive group. It has been proposed to lie between 100 and 250, with a commonly used value of 150.
Dunbar's number states the number of people one knows and keeps social
contact with, and it does not include the number of people known
personally with a ceased social relationship, nor people just generally
known with a lack of persistent social relationship, a number which
might be much higher and likely depends on long-term memory size.
Dunbar theorized that "this limit is a direct function of relative neocortex
size, and that this in turn limits group size ... the limit imposed by
neocortical processing capacity is simply on the number of individuals
with whom a stable inter-personal relationship can be maintained." On
the periphery, the number also includes past colleagues, such as high
school friends, with whom a person would want to reacquaint themself if they met again - Wikipedia
As I'm getting older, I found myself less and less reclining to keep relationships with people.
True friends are few and far between, I realised.
And I hate to know their political and personal inclinations as well. We are just social animals.
I believe in this Dunbar limit in my Facebook friends. However I limit it to just 50 - 60 people.
I never believe in Twitter, followers, or things I felt as "group dynamics" in social media.
I do not want to feel like a sheep following a herd, or a passenger missing a bus.
In fact, nowadays I no longer entertain emails or comments from whoever who reads this and that (beyondthispunkt.tumblr.com)
This social media, to me, just serve a single purpose. For reading. My own reading. No more, no less.